Phillipians 2:1-5 愛 "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails"
-1 Corinthians 13:4-8a
The Goal in any God/Christ centered relationship/friendship should be to continually lead/point the other person towards Christ , not continually draw attention towards each other.